One Man’s Journey: How I Quit Porn and Why I’m Not Going Back

I remember when I first discovered internet porn – I was 17 years old (1).  Fascinated by this world of unleashed sexual expression and fantasy, I couldn’t get enough of it. As I grew up and began exploring my own sexuality, I discovered…
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Getting Real: Talking About Pornography & Sexuality with Middle School Boys

I was recently invited to facilitate a discussion about pornography and sexuality with a classroom full of 7th grade boys. With this being such an important and rarely-addressed topic for boys at this formative age, I was happy to say yes. Research…
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Courage to Quit: How I’m Outgrowing Pornography and Re-awakening My Sexuality

If you are a human being alive in the 21st century, chances are you have an opinion about porn. Maybe you use it; maybe you don’t. Maybe you think it’s good; maybe you think it’s bad; maybe you think it’s none of my business. Fine.…

What I Learned From Telling 100,000 People About My Porn Habit

This is the story of my journey as a man - moving from shame, silence, and secrecy to a powerful place of integrity, courage, and connection. A journey that will last a lifetime. I share my story as an invitation for each of us to sit with our…
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Interview with Evita Ochel: The Rise of Wholehearted Men

(All text below is copied from her YouTube Channel) EBTV presents host Evita Ochel (http://www.evitaochel.com) with special guest Dan Mahle (http://wholeheartedmasculine.org) in a dialogue about challenges for modern men and the rise…
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The Beauty of Conflict: Knowing When It’s Time to “HALT”

Have you ever gotten in an argument with someone you love? Have you ever lost your temper? Ever punched a hole in the wall? I have. Relationship difficulties are a reality. Even the best relationships include conflict. But this isn't necessarily…