WHOLEHEARTED MASCULINE
STRENGTH THROUGH CONNECTION.
For men ready to live and lead more wholeheartedly.
WELCOME TO MEN'S WORK.
We believe the world needs men who show up with their whole hearts as fathers, partners, friends and citizens.
We know that wholehearted masculinity is grounded in connection: with other men, with nature, and with our own bodies and emotions.
We build communities where men support each other through practices that foster friendship, accountability, self-discovery, and gratitude.
“For millennia, men gathered around campfires to share stories of wisdom, rites of passage, and community. Today, we carry that tradition forward.”
MEN'S GROUPS
Find connection and community with our online group or in-person at a local men's circle. All groups are guided by experienced facilitators and men's work practitioners.
FOR MILLENNIA, MEN GATHERED TOGETHER AROUND CAMPFIRES TO SHARE OUR STORIES.
WHY GATHER WITH MEN?
Society often pressures men to suppress their emotions, avoid vulnerability, and seek status and dominance as a way to validate their worth. This approach can numb us to the richness and depth of life, leading to emotional detachment and, in some cases, destructive behaviors such as addiction, excessive control, and even violence. Many men are left feeling isolated and unfulfilled, despite a deep-seated desire for love, connection, and genuine engagement with life.
Today, men across the globe are coming together to reshape masculinity by exploring the strength found in healthy vulnerability and authentic connection. We are actively working to address the limitations of traditional masculinity that have left many of us emotionally stifled and disconnected from our true selves.
By confronting our fears and learning from our struggles, we are beginning to understand what it means to lead lives of purpose and fulfillment. We are redefining manhood for the 21st century, starting with a deeper understanding of ourselves and each other. Join us in this transformative journey toward a more connected and meaningful existence.
Boulder, CO
BOULDER-DENVER AREA
Led by Dan
- • In-person men's circle
- • Meets 7:00-9:00 PM Mountain
- • 4th Tuesday (open)
- • 2nd Tuesday (closed)
Salem, MA
GREATER BOSTON AREA
Led by Ted
- • In-person men's circle
- • Meets 7:00-9:30 PM Eastern
- • 2nd Tuesdays (open)
- • 4th Tuesdays (open)
Online
GLOBAL COMMUNITY (CLOSED)
Led by Ted & Nicholas
- • Global men's work community
- • Meets 7:00-9:00 PM Mountain
- • 1st and 3rd Tuesdays
WHAT MEN ARE SAYING
“Dan is doing truly visionary work with Wholehearted Masculine. I have been in and out of his men's groups since 2017, and I always keep coming back because they're honest, true, and deeply valuable to me.”
Neil DiMont
Men's Group Member
“Wholehearted Men's circle is not about just talking. It's honest and deep and transformational work. Dan's wisdom and presence is a gift to this world.”
Will Forsythe
Men's Group Member
“Wholehearted Masculine has changed my life for the better. Because of the workshops and writing, I feel confident and empowered as a man. It's great to be part of a community helping good men be better.”
Galen Erickson
Workshop Participant
WHAT TO EXPECT
A typical men's group session includes:
CHECK-INS
Space for each group member to share where they are
EMBODIMENT PRACTICES
Grounding exercises to become more present
ACCOUNTABILITY
Support to help you grow into the man you truly are
GROUP WORK
Diving deep into the challenges you and other men face
MEN'S COACHING
with Dan Mahle
Find balance. Cultivate authentic power. Awaken aliveness.
Dan's coaching catalyzes foundational shifts in mindset and behavior, leading to sustained change in work, relationships, transitions, and self-mastery.
For over a decade, Dan has partnered with men from all walks of life — founders, fathers, veterans, artists, executives, teachers, tradesmen, and everything in between — anyone ready to do the real work.
WHAT YOU'LL GAIN
EMOTIONAL AGILITY
Cultivate embodied awareness and integrate your full self to unleash your sense of aliveness
CLARITY & BOUNDARIES
Create thoughtful boundaries, navigate thorny conflicts, and experience more joy in life
RELATIONAL MASTERY
Thrive in diverse spaces and lead with confidence, presence, and skillfulness
COURAGEOUS LEADERSHIP
Lead with courage and compassion through ambiguity and complex change
WHAT CLIENTS SAY
“Working with Dan one on one and in our group container was a beautiful experience. He has a truly loving energy that allowed me to feel safe in my vulnerability and authentic expression. It is truly life-changing and soul-nourishing.”
Bob Perna-Amari
Coaching Client
“Over 3 years of coaching, I've learned the most effective strategies to bring forth the healthiest version of myself. This work has shown me it's a lifelong practice, difficult yet effective. It has been a pleasure knowing I'm not alone and yet still a strong individual.”
James Helinski
Coaching Client
“Dan has a real skill of pin-pointing opportunities to make pivots and real change. He is able to synthesize what he hears and respond with intelligent questions. I always come away feeling inspired, supported, and excited about the progress I've made.”
Devin Rivard
Coaching Client
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
WHOLEHEARTED PRINCIPLES
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MEET THE FACILITATORS
DAN MAHLE
Founder · Boulder, CO
I am a facilitator, storyteller, and executive coach. I partner with founders, CEOs, and leaders to strengthen the capacities that matter most: emotional intelligence, relational presence, and resilience. I live in Boulder, CO with my wife and two young kids.
Connect with me on LinkedIn
MAX MARSCHHAUSEN
Facilitator · Boulder, CO
I'm a facilitator, educator, and storyteller. I am currently developing an outdoor educational learning pod and plan to make men's work a part of the curriculum to instill healthy vulnerability within our youth.
Connect with me via email
TED BURNHAM
Facilitator · Salem, MA & Online
Wordsmith, dad, aspiring space traveler, and facilitator of the Salem, MA men’s circle.
Connect with me on LinkedIn
NICHOLAS APPLEGATE
Facilitator · Boulder, CO & Online
I am an engineer intrigued by all the things that we can't see. In my journey to reclaim my masculinity, I am grateful to share, learn, listen, and grow in the company of amazing men.
Connect with me on LinkedInTHE BLOG
Personal essays on masculinity, vulnerability, connection, and the inner work of practicing wholehearted masculinity.
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