GROUPS

MEN'S GROUPS

Find connection and community with our online group or in-person at a local men's circle. All groups are guided by experienced facilitators and men's work practitioners.

WHY GATHER WITH MEN?

Short answer: Because we need each other.

Being a man is hard. There's pressure to always be self-sufficient, to keep your emotions in check, to prove your worth by what you produce. A lot of us get stuck thinking we have to figure it all out on our own, because we were never taught how to ask for help. But when we look each other in the eye, let our guard down a little, and share what's really going on, powerful things start to happen. Problems that seemed unique turn out to be common. Emotions that have been bottled up for years find room to breathe. And we start to trust that whatever struggles you're going through, there's another man nearby who's going through the same thing.

For those of us who've been in this work for years, helping another man feel comfortable enough to trust us with his authentic truth is one of the highest honors we've experienced. We do men's group because we've each got our own shit to deal with, and it's easier – healthier – to deal with it together. And the practice of gathering, sharing, and trusting each other is the only way to outgrow the trap of thinking 'being a man' means doing it all yourself.

Boulder, CO

BOULDER-DENVER AREA

Led by Dan

  • In-person men's circle
  • Meets 7:00-9:00 PM Mountain
  • 4th Tuesday (open)
  • 2nd Tuesday (closed)
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Salem, MA

GREATER BOSTON AREA

Led by Ted

  • In-person men's circle
  • Meets 7:00-9:30 PM Eastern
  • 2nd Tuesdays (open)
  • 4th Tuesdays (open)
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Online

GLOBAL COMMUNITY (FULL)

Led by Ted & Nicholas

  • Global men's work community
  • Meets 7:00-9:00 PM Mountain
  • 1st and 3rd Tuesdays
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WHAT TO EXPECT

A typical men's group session includes:

CHECK-INS

Space for each group member to share where they are

EMBODIMENT PRACTICES

Grounding exercises to become more present

ACCOUNTABILITY

Support to help you grow into the man you truly are

GROUP WORK

Diving deep into the challenges you and other men face

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

WHAT MEN ARE SAYING

Dan is doing truly visionary work with Wholehearted Masculine. I have been in and out of his men's groups since 2017, and I always keep coming back because they're honest, true, and deeply valuable to me.

Neil DiMont

Men's Group Member

Wholehearted Men's circle is not about just talking. It's honest and deep and transformational work. Dan's wisdom and presence is a gift to this world.

Will Forsythe

Men's Group Member

Working with Dan one on one and in our group container was a beautiful experience. He has a truly loving energy that allowed me to feel safe in my vulnerability and authentic expression. It is truly life-changing and soul-nourishing.

Bob Perna-Amari

Coaching Client

Over 3 years of coaching, I've learned the most effective strategies to bring forth the healthiest version of myself. This work has shown me it's a lifelong practice, difficult yet effective. It has been a pleasure knowing I'm not alone and yet still a strong individual.

James Helinski

Coaching Client

Dan has a real skill of pin-pointing opportunities to make pivots and real change. He is able to synthesize what he hears and respond with intelligent questions. I always come away feeling inspired, supported, and excited about the progress I've made.

Devin Rivard

Coaching Client

Wholehearted Masculine has changed my life for the better. Because of the workshops and writing, I feel confident and empowered as a man. It's great to be part of a community helping good men be better.

Galen Erickson

Workshop Participant

I am very choosy about who I hire as a coach, and I am so happy I hired Dan. His heart and soul commitment to me as a client felt wonderful, and his ability to reflect the important details of our conversations proved very useful. I recommend Dan without hesitation.

Titus Kahoutek

Coaching Client

Wholehearted Masculine has been life changing. It was my gateway into being more in touch with my emotions and being vulnerable with other men. I can trace the ripple of healing in my life back to this work.

Erik Molano

Workshop Participant

Dan and this organization are creating a critical conversation to re-invent masculinity. I'm in awe of their bravery, vulnerability, and creativity in making this healing work happen.

Benjamin Smith

Workshop Participant

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